I was going through some of my old e-mails tonight and I came across this phrase:
" I refuse to argue about a guy,because a guy who puts me in that position,certainly doesn't deserve me!" -when I wrote these words,I truly felt it,but now more than ever they make sense to me. Sometimes we need to let the situations "breathe" to be able to evaluate what's best for us.
With guys,I've had girls lie to my face,I've had some who pretend nothing happened,I've had some asking me personal question so they can talk about my life,and in the end I hope they learned something...to Respectme,and to Respect themselves above all. Because most of the times,I chose to pretend I don't know what's happening because at this point it's irrelevant,because when you confront someone with facts and they are totally in denial,what can you do?
I'm not fake and I don't play games,some of you are probably thinking "Well,if it's not relevant ,why is she writing about it?"-because I always do what I feel like,and I know that there are some people out there going through what I've been through,and this is me sharing.
Even though people will lie to you,cheat on you,be fake to you,whatever...turn the other cheek,and prove to them that you really ARE different,and that they have the potential to be like you or better,and leave all the bullshit aside...Have in mind though that some people don't change,they are what they are,and in those cases if you turned the other cheek and they still acted disrespectful ,I sugest you turn your butt cheeks to 'em,and say : EAT MY SHORTS MOTHERFUCKER!*
*another way to say kiss my ass or suck my dick